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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 04:21

How does one succeed in life?

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Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What do you think is the #1 cause of why relationships nowadays don't seem to last long?

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What firsthand information do you have on prisoner-on-prisoner sexual abuse/rape?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

As a Chinese, what disgusts you about the Chinese society today?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why can’t my wife just accept the fact that I’m going to cheat?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What do you think hell is like?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Have you ever witnessed political correctness harm someone?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

While emptying a house, have you ever seen something in it that blew your mind?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can we become the best humans? How can we trust each other?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Having read so much about Archie and Lilibet not actually existing, does anyone have any proof that they not only exist but that Meghan gave birth to them?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.